A single word can have a multitude of meanings.
“Ah”
How does that word sound to you? Try saying it out loud.
Now, say it like:
- You’ve just sat down after a long day on your feet.
- You’re contemplating a decision.
- You’ve just seen a typo you made on an all staff email.
- You’re watching fireworks go off.
- You’ve just kicked your little toe on the edge of the couch.
- You’ve just walked into your surprise party.
- You’re just now figuring out what I mean when I say a single word can have a multitude of meanings
Should we really be surprised when we experience some type of miscommunication in the home or workplace?
I have learned (at times the hard way) that just because I am speaking, doesn’t always mean I am being heard. It’s possible for people to listen to my words, and yet, completely miss what I’m trying to say.
When my wife says “let’s eat dinner at the table”, I’ve now learned that those words are less about where we are eating our meal and more about what we are doing while we eat.
So how do we reduce the likelihood of miscommunication?
Here are a few suggestions that will help:
- If you’re sending a message and you don’t think you have been understood, CONSIDER how you could deliver the message differently to reinforce the meaning.
- If you’re sending a message and you think you’ve been understood, CHECK in with the person to make sure. Have them repeat the meaning back to you.
- If you’re receiving a message and you don’t think you understand, CLARIFY the meaning with the sender by asking questions.
- If you’re receiving a message and you think you understand, CONFIRM by repeating back the meaning you heard.
If a single word can have a multitude of meanings, it’s worth taking the time to ensure you’ve got the right one.